Posts Tagged - Adultery

“Deeply Disturbed”

Two words no attorney wants to hear from a judge.  I heard those words recently (not directed at me!).  Law is kind of diplomacy, people temper their words.  “Concerned” means I’m very frustrated,on so on.  But one phrase is always understood to mean someone really screwed up. If you ever hear someone in black robes tell you this, you can count on two things.  1. You are not getting what your asking for; and  2. You may get something you really don’t want.

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End of Summer Approaching.

Posted on August 10, 2008 by John Steele

The end of summer means several things to me:

1. Football is almost here. Read the rest of this entry »

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Multiple Fathers

Posted on December 8, 2007 by John Steele

Like many states, Illinois statutes relating to marriage and children often and mistakenly assume women do not cheat on their husbands. For example, if a child is born to a married couple, and nothing is said or done by either person, the state (and the courts) presume the husband is the father.  Read the rest of this entry »

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Spying on Spouse

Posted on October 29, 2007 by John Steele

I recently read an article about a spouse using Spyware to catch the other spouse cheating.

Here are my thoughts:  Read the rest of this entry »

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“Gold Digger” by Kanye West

Posted on February 10, 2010 by John Steele

This question made me stop what I was doing so I could share this on my blog:

My sister was married for eight years and had three children when she had an affair. The affair resulted in the birth of triplets.  (Get ready . . . ) Read the rest of this entry »

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Online Cheating

Posted on September 14, 2007 by John Steele

Study showing what I think is an underreported phenomenon. We (family law attorneys) are going to keep seeing more and more of this stuff. http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/emotionalaffairs/f/onlineaffairs.htm Illinois allows for both fault based and no-fault divorces, with the vast majority being no-fault. But easy access to computers, plenty of alone time, and the low risk thrill of pretending to be someone else lures people. Read the rest of this entry »

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